In the zone.

February 3rd, 2012

On the first run of our annual ski trip in the spectacular Colorado Rockies, my friend Susan and I paused mid-mountain to remark on the beauty of our surroundings. With unstoppable grins, we basked in the blue-sky sun that had softened the snow to ideal conditions.  We had the mountain to ourselves and it was exhilarating.

We were in a groove with nature and time seemed nonexistent. Our day ended in perfection, too, on an outside terrace at the base of the mountain sipping a delicious concoction of hot chocolate and butterscotch schnapps.

It was the perfect segue to my Tip of the Day email from dailygood.org a few days later that linked to an article titled “Group flow: How teamwork can foster creativity,” 
by R. Keith Sawyer, a professor of psychology and education at Washington University in St. Louis and one of country’s leading scientific experts on creativity and author of “Group Genius.”

To understand group flow, Sawyer explains first how individuals find flow. He draws on research by famed psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi who coined the term “flow” to describe the state of heightened consciousness that some people, like me, refer to as being “in the zone.”

Here’s what he says: “Csikszentmihalyi discovered that extremely creative people are at their peak when they experience ‘a unified flowing from one moment to the next, in which we feel in control of our actions, and in which there is little distinction between self and environment; between stimulus and response; or between past, present, and future.’ When they enter the flow state, people from a wide range of professions describe feeling a sense of competence and control, a loss of self-consciousness, and they get so absorbed in the task that they lose track of time.”

Building on that research, Sawyer identified 10 factors for group flow:
1.   The group’s goal
2.   Close listening
3.   Keep it moving forward
4.   Complete concentration
5.   Being in control
6.   Blending egos
7.   Equal participation
8.   Familiarity
9.   Communication
10. The potential for failure

These are worth reading in detail for anyone who wants to foster a team’s focus on unbridled creativity and innovation. Are you ready to get in the zone?

Strength of character on the big screen.

January 27th, 2012

It can be tricky to write in a darkened movie theater. But lines from two movies this week prompted me to risk the quick glances of disapproval from people around me as I searched my bag for a pen and notepad. These were thoughts I wanted to remember, chew on, talk about and share. I wrote in large script, hopeful I’d be able to read what I’d scribbled when the lights went up.

My first note is from the movie “Pina,” a feature-length dance film in 3D that pays homage to the late German choreographer Pina Bausch (1940-2009). Between dance pieces, members of the ensemble talk about Pina and their experiences working with her. I wish I could attribute the female dancer who said this:

Pina was a radical explorer. She kept asking, ‘What are we longing for? Where does all this yearning come from?’”

Yes! I thought. Two of my first questions for clients are What do you want? and What is your desire? We create for ourselves and shape our experiences with a longing. The basis for creating our life’s work must start there, with a burning desire for something.

Next I was compelled to write down something Meryl Streep says as Margaret Thatcher in the biographical film “The Iron Lady.” She tells us it’s what her father always said:

Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words for they become actions. Watch your actions for they become habits. Watch your habits for they become your character. You become what you think.

Funny how she knew that. That her father knew that. Perhaps he was an early reader of Napoleon Hill’s work. Maybe he learned for himself that which is a founding principle of Qinomics: You get what you think about.

What would you learn as an Undercover Boss?

January 20th, 2012

When it comes to mentioning TV shows, I don’t usually stray from PBS or the Science and Discovery channels. But seeing a promo for the start of this year’s CBS reality series “Undercover Boss” prompted me to go back and watch some shows from the first two seasons on on YouTube.

Here’s the set-up: Each week, “Undercover Boss” cameras follow a different chief executive as s/he leaves a comfortable corner office, puts on a disguise and steps into an employee’s shoes to see how his or her company runs. Employees with whom the CEO gets placed are told this new person is being filmed for a documentary about entry-level jobs, or some such story. While working alongside frontline members of their team, these CEOs see the effects their decisions have on others and where problems lie within their organizations. They get an up-close look at both the good and the bad and can determine firsthand how to eliminate bad policies and set things right.

But the best part of the experience for each of them is reconnecting with their workforce and discovering the unsung heroes who make their companies run successfully. They learn that people work hard, want to do well, have dreams about creating a better life for themselves and others while doing meaningful work.

Sheldon Yellen, CEO of $1 billion Belfor Holdings, the world’s largest property restoration company, went undercover for the show and later explained in an interview with Inc. magazine’s Tennille Robinson why it was a “life-changing” experience for him.

Here are a few of his thoughts on being a better leader:

The closer the top management can be to the people who are doing the heavy lifting every day, the better the organization can be more sustainable. It gives you a real grounded sense of what’s important. And what’s important in an organization, to me, is people. That is your single greatest asset.

You can’t lead with titles, you can’t lead with rules, and you can’t lead with just words. You lead with trust, compassion and listening. The only way to have these three realized is if you have real, open, sincere, honest relationships that matter. Not work relationships, but all the time relationships.”

“I think those that believe that their title gives them credibility is unacceptable. To me, you should earn the right to lead other people by doing the right thing and being the right kind of person.

If you were to go undercover in your organization, what do you think you’d learn? What would be right? What could be working better? How engaged are your employees with your company and its purpose? How connected are you with the day-to-day experiences of your managers and staff? Where do your ideas come from for improving your company for your employees and users of your service or product?

I think probably the answers to those questions can be found without the help of CBS.

Feeling lucky?

January 13th, 2012

When the 13th day of a month happens to fall on a Friday, a significant number of people get freaked out. According to the Stress Management Center and Phobia Institute in Asheville, N.C. as many as 21 million people are fearful of this day and an estimated $800 million is lost in business every Friday the 13th because people won’t get on an airplane or do business they would normally do.

Like many beliefs, the fear of Friday the 13th isn’t grounded in any scientific logic. Some people are just superstitious. They suspect that if something bad is going to happen, it’s more likely to happen on a bad-luck day like Friday the 13th.  And chances are then, for them, it will.

A belief is anything you accept as truth. And it’s our beliefs that shape our experience. For example, if you believe a situation will frustrate you, then most likely it will. Or, if you believe a co-worker will make you unhappy, then probably s/he will.  And your frustration or unhappiness – or bad luck – will, in turn, reinforce your belief.

Beliefs, therefore, can be limiting.

Take some time occasionally to examine the beliefs you hold about yourself, your business, your job, your colleagues and your customers or clients. Write down those beliefs. Do you think any of them might be limiting you? Keep in mind that just because you believe something doesn’t mean it’s true.

No one can change your beliefs for you. And beliefs can’t be forced upon you. But we all have the energy – the ability to change our ideas about ourselves and our work situations –that allows us to grow, expand and develop fulfilling, successful professional lives. That you can believe.

 

Parents make lasting impressions.

January 12th, 2012

I love it when my son Harry sends me a photo of something that reminds him of me.

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